Thursday, November 7, 2024
“So David went up thither, and his two wives also, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail Nabal’s wife the Carmelite” (2 Samuel 2:2 KJV).
Why did David have two wives? Did the LORD endorse such polygamy?
It is crucial for us to get the chronology straight. Before David had two wives, he had just one. “Now the sons of Saul were Jonathan, and Ishui, and Melchishua: and the names of his two daughters were these; the name of the firstborn Merab, and the name of the younger Michal” (1 Samuel 14:49). “And Michal Saul’s daughter loved David: and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him…. Wherefore David arose and went, he and his men, and slew of the Philistines two hundred men; and David brought their foreskins, and they gave them in full tale [number, count, total] to the king, that he might be the king’s son in law. And Saul gave him Michal his daughter to wife. And Saul saw and knew that the LORD was with David, and that Michal Saul’s daughter loved him” (1 Samuel 18:20,27,28).
Unbelieving King Saul, sensing how the LORD favors (believing) David, now seeks to kill David! “Saul also sent messengers unto David’s house, to watch him, and to slay him in the morning: and Michal David’s wife told him, saying, If thou save not thy life to night, to morrow thou shalt be slain…. So Michal let David down through a window: and he went, and fled, and escaped…. And Michal took an image, and laid it in the bed, and put a pillow of goats’ hair for his bolster, and covered it with a cloth…. And Saul said unto Michal, Why hast thou deceived me so, and sent away mine enemy, that he is escaped? And Michal answered Saul, He said unto me, Let me go; why should I kill thee?” (1 Samuel 19:11-13,17).
With David fleeing Saul’s wrath, Saul retaliates by marrying off Michal to another man: “But Saul had given Michal his daughter, David’s wife, to Phalti the son of Laish, which was of Gallim” (1 Samuel 25:44). As indicated in today’s Scripture, this led to David finding and marrying two other women, Ahinoam and Abigail….
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