Sunday, March 15, 2026
“They zealously affect you, but not well; yea, they would exclude you, that ye might affect them. But it is good to be zealously affected always in a good thing, and not only when I am present with you” (Galatians 4:17,18 KJV).
Let us see if we can identify and comprehend the dangers of relying on emotions….
I speak from personal experience. Attempting to reason with emotional people is, frankly, a total waste of time because emotions have no reasoning behind them anyway. (Remember how emotions respond to simulations rather than reality—sadness results from watching tragic and romantic movies, excitement comes with drama and adventure, anger stems from thrillers, fear results from horror shows, and so on.) It has been suggested that our decisions are made on the basis of 80% emotion and a mere 20% intellect! If true, no wonder our world brims with mistakes, failures, carelessness, and poor choices… especially since those short-lived emotions gave way to others, leading to additional faulty judgments.
For several years now, I have attended the various sporting events of my niece and my nephew. Parents get quite worked up when their child’s team is losing or being treated unfairly. Recently, at one such game, a mother of our group yelled at the referees, then a father of the opposite team screamed at her, and he next shouted at the referees, and she finally roared at him. How truly silly and utterly embarrassing! When emotions run high, ridiculous conduct is instigated; blasphemies and obscenities are uttered. Children notice this immaturity amongst adults, and they copy it when dealing with their peers on the court or field. I have even seen coaches throw tantrums—and, accordingly, their kids were just as asinine. Physical altercations were moments away! (This explains why police officers were stationed there.) Once, I spotted a hilarious sign at an athletic park entrance: “Our coaches are volunteers. No scholarships will be awarded here. What is most important is having fun.” Yea, here is reason. It is far more preferable to lose a game than lose a life!
Parents need to be sure they are ideal role-models for their children concerning the regulation of emotions. They need to be zealously affected in good things, and not zealously affected in evil….
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