Tuesday, September 2, 2025
“Salute one another with an holy kiss. The churches of Christ salute you” (Romans 16:16 KJV).
What is this “holy kiss?”
Paul refers to the “holy kiss” on four occasions. “Salute one another with an holy kiss…” (Romans 16:16). “All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss” (1 Corinthians 16:20). “Greet one another with an holy kiss” (2 Corinthians 13:12). “Greet all the brethren with an holy kiss” (1 Thessalonians 5:26). Peter refers to a similar “kiss of charity [love in action]:” “Greet ye one another with a kiss of charity. Peace be with you all that are in Christ Jesus. Amen” (1 Peter 5:14).
In the Middle East, the kiss was a form of friendly or affectionate greeting. “And his father Isaac said unto him, Come near now, and kiss me, my son. And he came near, and kissed him…” (Genesis 27:26,27). “And Jacob kissed Rachel…” (Genesis 29:11). “…And Joab took Amasa by the beard with the right hand to kiss him” (2 Samuel 20:9). “And forthwith he [hypocritical Judas Iscariot!] came to Jesus, and said, Hail, master; and kissed him” (Matthew 26:49). “Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet” (Luke 7:45). “And they all wept sore, and fell on Paul’s neck, and kissed him, Sorrowing most of all for the words which he spake, that they should see his face no more. And they accompanied him unto the ship” (Acts 20:37,38).
Thus, through Peter and Paul, believers are exhorted to greet or salute each other with a “holy kiss.” Considering passages such as 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, 1 Corinthians 3:1-4, 1 Corinthians 11:17-19, and 2 Corinthians 12:20,21; the Corinthians particularly needed to get along with each other. The “holy” kiss was a “set-apart” kiss—believers greeting each other on the forehead, cheek, or beard. It had no sexual connotation. Men kissed men, and women kissed women. Would this type of kissing be appropriate today? It would probably not be, as it was more of a cultural issue in Bible days. Nevertheless, we should greet each other in Christ in some fashion—maybe shaking hands, hugging, waving, and so on. As long as there is a sense of tenderness or care, that is all that really matters. The heart attitude is what is most important, not the physical movements.

